October 28, 2009

Hey Yah!

First off, let me say...I fricking Love REGGIE... Hey BOO!

Secondly, I'm going To ask you a question...

How do you fell about the idea of a "soulmate"?

I was talking to my mom and she said that she believes that the person who is your "soulmate" may or may not be the person you should end up with... Because some people "soulmates" aren't good for them... I can understand this point because I know plenty of people who claimed they have found their "soulmates" and are completely miserable and unhappy with the sate of their relationship, unhappy with the way their "soulmate" treats them, etc.... I countered with the idea that I believe we decide who our "soulmate" is... what their actions are... what they look like... what kind of character traits they have...etc.

so I guess my real question is... Do we determine our soulmates? Or are they already selected somewhere and we just take what we get?

I know y'all don't like to comment/read my blog anymore... But I would love the answer to this one....some different opinions would be nice...

3 comments:

Hard Work said...

I think our true soulmates are predetermined... they are the true person that God has picked for us to be the perfect counterpart... so with that in mind, I don't see how your true soulmate could be bad for you... it seems to me that if they are bad for you, then they're not really your soulmate...

I think it's okay to self-determine your soulmate but I don't see how one would really know if they are or not...

yummy411 said...

i'm so jaded at my old age... bah humbug ;) hehe

oh btw, i love your drag looks!!

Jsmoove said...

Hey Christa long time no typin.
"Soulmate" hmm this is very touchy for me. Did I ever tell that I was in love twice truly and genuinely. And I'm only 25yrsyoung. My heart is aching but never mind that I've got the key and, somehow I think that we don't choose our soul mate but we choose how well we would(with our soulmate): love communicate trust honor respect enjoy.
Happy Holidays!
Jerimiah